Cebu, Cebu oh my Cebu

I have always loved this city, I visited Cebu once before and fell in love with its cleanliness, people and the gay bar called The Navigator. I actually forgot the name of the bar because it has been a while but after some searching I worked it out. I organized where I wanted to stay. I wanted it to be central yet not too pricey. Close enough to Mango area, the bars I wanted to visit and the Massage Parlor I heard about. I also organized a mode of transport to help us visit these gay bars.

So my friends and I arrived around maybe 7ish at night and we had the car waiting for us at the airport. I chose to stay in a hotel near Ayala Center called Quest Hotel. I must say that I love this hotel. Its interior is awesome, service was impeccable and rooms were very comfortable. For a 3star rating, it was definitely a 5star service.

This was the Junior Suite I stayed at and loved every minute I had in this room. Bed was comfortable, lounge area was roomy and view was good.

The main factor for me was its location, we literally just had to cross the road to Ayala Center to check out what's on offer.


My plan was not to spend too much time in a bar simply because I wanted to visit three bars that night. First visit was The Navigator Bar in Mandaue....OMG...it brought back so many memories.

It still looked the same but they just moved the stage. Last time I was there it was 2am and I was the only customer in the Bar. This time there was a few and there were some Macho Dancers I liked. We just ordered our drinks and watched. There was no plan of getting a MD that night. After about 1 1/2 hours we left and went to Nauhty Ka Bar in Banilad......forget it. Went in and we saw people sleeping on the booths and really was not inviting at all. Walked in and walked straight out. OMG. Am sure it was Naughty Ka, tawa lang sa amin si Mamang Driver.

Next was Zeus Bar... this bar wasn't in the itinerary but we saw it while driving by so why not. It is along AS Fortuna in Mandaue. This was already very late and there was only one other table with customers. So watched for a bit while the FM was talking to me. The stage was quite big and the first few dancers didn't really get my attention. One dancer got off stage walked towards me, sat on my lap and started to kiss my neck. Ooooomyyyygaaaashhhhh! I got excited! Gave him a tip and off he went. The dancer that followed him looked very familiar and he had an awesome bod. Then I realized he was the one netizens were talking about when I visited some blogs regarding Cebu bars. He was quite popular and now he was dancing right in front of me.....oh my!!! So we chatted for a bit and decided to see each other the following night. Alam na this!

The night ended and did some tour during the day and couldn't wait for the evening to come. We had a massage at D'Aviary near the hotel (I made sure this was walking distance).

I had a masseur who was a little chinito, maputi and buffed. The massage was good and I was expecting for a whisper to happen. The whisper came...."Sir, gusto niyo extra service?". This was music to my ears, of course I wanted that. I knelt in front of him and gave him the time of his life. I was satisfied and am sure he was.



Then we had dinner in Lapu-Lapu and had seafood. It was so nice and I must say maraming boys that were looking at us.

I met with the MD from Zeus bar in the hotel after dinner. Of course we had a bit of chit-chat then he mentioned that he wanted to go to Manila to visit friends. Light bulb turned on and I said that I can give him a one way flight to Manila. Cebu Pacific had a sale so why not. I had an awesome time with him that night. I worshiped that body like there was tomorrow. Definitely worth the ticket purchase.

After our deed, I told him that we were going to Navi and he wanted to come because he initially came from that bar so I said why not. We got to Navi quite late and I knew who I wanted to table but seeing that I was with MD, I got my friends to table who I liked. LOL. Rain was the only name I could remember but we ended up tabling a few of them. I loved the company and we did spend quite a bit. It was fun because we were the only customers left in the bar. I even met an MD whom I initially met in a bar that I previously posted that is in Manila. How weird!

Anyway, after that we went out for breakfast near Mango and it was an enjoyable time with these guys. I so wanted to take Rain home but I had no time left. Can't wait to visit Cebu again

The Navi Boys

 

This is Rain

I'm Back

It's been a while since I posted on my blog and now I have decided to bring it back to life. It only took me three years! Over the past years I have gone through a lot. Maybe I will not focus so much on my bar experiences on this blog but rather my overall experiences. My travels, my thoughts and more. Some posts however will not be real time, meaning the event may have happened a month, a year or even two years ago.

I still go to gay bars, although not as much and get involved in some forums. It's quite amazing how much you learn or how much you discover on the world wide Web. It has been my source of information for anything I do especially my travels and how to pick up men or where to find them.

Going back to gay bars in the Philippines, I find it amazing how they now call them entertainment bars simply because they don't get as much "gay" clientele anymore. Women frequent these bars nowadays. Don't know why when all they need to do is open their legs and these men will be more than willing to give it to them for free. Why pay and shower them with gifts? I feel that gay, discreet, bi men are smarter nowadays and will not spend so much in these places. We do not fall for those scripted sob stories they tend to pull. We go there knowing what to spend and how far we will go. Holding hands with an MD is no longer an option. There are more fishes in the sea, you just need to know where to fish.

I really do think that some women are still naive about this MD business. They really give it all. Hook line and sinker. If they only knew what we already know. You're not the only one honey and he's probably told the same stories to many other women. I found some pics from a Macho Dancers FB account of the gifts he had received from his so called "Mommy". Very impressive gifts I must say.

Another recent discovery of mine are Massage Parlors. Recent because I never liked going to them but I knew what was going on. On my trip to Bangkok, I realized that it was not bad at all and I got over my comfort issues. So nowadays, I tend to get a massage before I get my extra service. Where have I been this whole time?????

Philippine Indie Films

There was a stage where there was endless Filipino "Gay themed" indie films. Although some people say that they are after the storyline and it should not be all about sex. Well consider me different, storyline does not bother me. I watch the indie films to see men and man to man action, how it's executed and how much it turns me on.

I have watched majority of these films, there are some I totally love and others just wasted my time.

Films I've watched include Wanted Male Boarders, Hikbi, Muli, Bahid, Bola, Summer Boys, Kape Barako, Pagnanasa, I'dnal, Salo, Tarima, Campus Crush, anything Discreetly, Kayod Marino, Showboyz, Quicktrip, Walang Kawala, Dreamguys and the list goes on.

My top three films are:

This movie shows a lot of men and the scenes are such a turn on... there are plenty of them and they are not mini scenes. Marco Morales is totally flawless here and brilliant in all sense of the word.

Flesh galore, I had fun, fun, fun with this film. The thought of men in those little bars in Clark gives me goosebumps, makes you want to visit Angeles City over and over again. Frontal aplenty.

A film by Monti Parungao filled with men, men , men and their bits. Although it's scenes are short, it's very enjoyable. There's something about bangkeros and hoping I will meet some that are as hot as these boys.

To me, the films made during indie peak are the best ones out there.

My worst films????? Not even worth mentioning.

Hope there will be more to cum (literally)

The "V" Bar

The most time I spent in a Gay Bar would have been the time I spent at "V" Bar (not it's real name) but has  been closed. The bar itself was big, clean, had very cute boys and expensive. This was the time that I was "constant" to the scene. Although I visited other bars in the Metro, this was my favorite during the time. Simply because the management, staff and the boys had a different welcoming compared to the other bars.

Boys were well trained, trained to their benefit of course. They knew what to say, how to say it and most had their own managers who look after them. In which then would push the customers to make "sabit" when their talents are on stage.

Obviously I was oblivious to all of these at the time.

I eventually met "a few good men" and tabled them constantly. I had my fair share of investment in that establishment. I can't even begin to mention the amount of money I spent on these boys and their drinks and their tips plus waiter's and manager's tips.

During this time, dancers drinks were at P470- P520 (I do not recall exactly) and you had specific booths depending on minimum spend. I usually tipped the Manager P500, Waiters at P300. Sometimes I would table three boys at minimum of at least seven drinks each. I used to spend at minimum P10K- P20K per night plus tips and I would visit at least five times a month.

NOTE: Never again should anyone spend this much money in these bars, I learned the hard way.

I guess they knew what they were doing and that was the main reason I kept coming back. They knew how to play and I fell for it. I do not regret the time spent there but there was a stage where I felt that I was played too much and the boy I liked a lot was not honoring his side of the deal and the manager had everything to do with it. This is saying it lightly.

Gay Bars- Deal or No Deal?

Eto na, maumpisahan na nga. I would not say that I am 150% into Gay bars pero I do not say that I do not visit one now and again. Sa totoo lang, I find it quite enjoyable- within reasons.

I have had an argument with a friend about going to these places, He asked me "What is so enjoyable about watching macho dancers do the same moves over and over again?"

You know what? I had no answer for that. I just like to watch but it made me think. Here are maybe some VALID reasons why I still go:

1. I do like the ambiance in some bars- the music, etc
2. Free air-con
3. Some of these boys are quite hot regardless of their profession
4. I have set myself a limit on money I spend on each visit
5. I don't get attached to anyone I table.

Convinced yet?

Over the next few blogs, I will give you a run down of the bars I visited.