My Security Guard

I have always had a fascination with random pick-ups (I know it is also dangerous) most specifically Taxi Drivers, Retail Attendants, Construction Workers and Security Guards and not that I have had plenty but I just love the thrill and the sense of achievement when they take the bait. This story is about my first ever Security Guard and because he was a good find.

I was staying in a quite an upscale condo in Makati, Philippines and I just got home from a late night out with friends. I still wasn’t sleepy and thought that I would go back down and check out what is around. Seeing that it is situated in the CBD you wouldn’t really find a lot of people walking for a possible pick-up. Thought I would go to the rear entrance of the building because I know that there are security guards there and that I could possibly chat them up.

When I got there, I was so happy because there was only one and the others were doing there random building checks. I started asking him how long he has been working there? How many are working that night? Is it busy? You know, the usual conversation starters. So while we were chatting, I was already thinking of how I was going to get this guy. As I am discreet, I had to verbally say something that confirms my true sexuality. I think I mentioned to him that “It’s quite late and I had no luck having a man come home with me”…. I swear it sounds better in tagalog, trust me. I mentioned to him that I hope that there are men around that I could have fun with. Then I asked him “Have you had any experience with a gay guy?” He was very honest with me and said that yes he had but it was a while back. So the door was widely opened and I was ready ask him to be mine for the night hahaha (morning really). I asked him “Pwede ka ba, what time do you finish?”  He had to think but he eventually said yes. It was like music to my ears and placed a big grin on my face. I told him to meet me in my condo after his shift and although a little unsure, he confirmed.

Usually you don’t really know if they will show until you actually hear them knocking on my door (I did not get his cell number). It was already 6am and I managed to stay awake while waiting for him. So I waited and waited and waited……then….. I heard a knock. I quickly jumped off the sofa to open the door and it was my Security Guard.

He was finally standing in front of me and I couldn’t wait to explore that body of his.  I wouldn’t have thought that my miserable night was to end with such a beautiful man. He wasn't very gwapo but there was definitely something about him. Although SG did not kiss, that morning was bursting with fulfilment and he was absolutely worth it. With that slim-build bod and is endless moans, I know that it was going to happen again and again and again.

I ended up seeing him for years……. I never got sick of my SG, he was still as yummy as the first time. We eventually lost contact but you never forget your first SG. Hope I find him again!

My fine SG

Club Mankind

I really searched to find this bar. The first time went in I was surprised how big it was and it was quite obvious that it was a quiet night. I didn't plan to table anyone. I wanted to ask questions about pricing and what they were all about. The FM mentioned that it was around 400 ata per MD and that is valid for 1hr. Yeah right! There were a collection of guys they had and I was amused how they had an all cast performance. Choreography was quite repetitive but it was cute and new to me. I left with a thought that I will be back. I always tend to just take it easy on my first visit to a bar. Have a look at their dancers, check their facilities and talk to FMs.

When I visited the bar again I already saw who I wanted to table. He was chinito, bulky and pogi. He was a good to talk to and drinks moderately. We even got to the conversation where he told me that the owner is a plastic surgeon and usually "thanks doc" ang nose nila. Pero di daw siya kasi di na kailangan ayusin. Lol. I saw another more twinkish dancer on stage and I liked him too. So I called the FM and asked to table him too. He was really cute. So the three if us kept talking and drinking, it was good. Then OMG.....I saw another twinkish dancer that I liked again then I was like. "You got to be kidding me" so the threesome then became the foursome. Omg how much was I going to spend?

We were pretty much in our own world. We still kept talking and we ended up playing spin the bottle/Truth or Dare. Lol. One had to kiss me on the lips then one had to show his pubes then one had to show his manhood. I enjoyed it very much, they even came with me to take me home pero they went back to the bar straight after. Umaga na kasi yon. Sunshine Cruz was usually what they called me in bars kasi I go home when the sun shines. Lol

I visited them some other times and it was good while it lasted  then I had to work away.

When I visited again they were all gone. I talked another guy but only saw him a few times. Mind you he was quite hot.

Out of the bars I visited I find this more appealing. Parang they seemed more organized and the collection of men were quite decent. ATW and area was minimal. Comfort rooms were clean and they even have free Wifi. This bar is quite pricey compared to others and as usual, there are a lot of women the frequent this bar.

Club Mankind
144 Scout Rogelio Ybardolaza Street
Barangay South Triangle, Quezon City
Metro Manila, Philippines

From Nichole Calubaquib's Youtube channel but this wasn't the choreo I liked

Bangkok, Thailand

I couldn't wait to see what BKK had to offer this time around. Bangkok, although similar to Manila, is still very exotic for me. It has that vibe that you will totally enjoy.

There was a flight sale so why not! I made sure that I stayed at Silom this time so I am closer to the action that I am after. Last time I stayed at Banglamphu and I did like the Caucasian eye candies I saw, I had to take a bus to Silom so it felt far.

This time we stayed in The Tawana Hotel on Surawong. This was a walk to the bars and close to Patpong Markets. This was convenience and budget more than anything. The closer the hotel was to Soi Twilight, the more expensive the hotel got. It was a nice room and aircon was pleasurable in the hotel considering the heat outside.

We had to visit Soi Twilight straight away and nothing much has changed although I do not remember it being so pricey. Of course price would change, it's called inflation. LOL. We just wanted to familiarize ourselves with the location. I have been so used to the late closing of bars in Manila that I forgot that they shut earlier in Bangkok. So ocular muna then we will hit the bars the following night.

We did some tours in during the day like we went on Chao Phraya River cruise, visited Temple of Dawn, Wat po and The Lying Buddha. That was enough. Of course I wanted to see what the streets offered and I wasn't disappointed.

There was also a lot of Massage places that are scattered all over Silom. I didn't really pay much attention because I was not in massages. 

Night time came and we visited Patpong Markets and checked out the girlie bars that lined it. Just checked it out, we didn't go in. All you could hear are these guys screaming "Ping-Pong show, Ping-Pong show"... OMG, not what we were quite after. 

We went back to Soi Twilight and we were pretty much dragged into this bar in which I forgot the name of and we decided to stay. Firstly the boys were all lined up on stage with numbers then the show started. There were two guys having a shower together on the side of the stage, then someone dancing on stage etc. I do think that the shows have been toned down from the last time I came here. There was real penetration then. I could not forget that show. I ended up eyeing someone on stage and I asked their floor manager what the deal was. The transaction was easy and I was introduced to my partner for the night. We left the bar and headed to my hotel room. I couldn't remember his name though.

He was nothing spectacular, very mechanical but I just loved his twinkish appeal. After our do, we went back outside and went to another bar. It's hard to bar hop here because it's expensive for drinks per person. I just found it excessive or maybe I am just used to Manila Bars.

The following day I ended up visiting a massage place near the hotel because my friend wanted to visit a Sauna in which I am absolutely not into. Oh my, it was something I should've gone to since I got here and it's cheaper. Massage was so so but extra service was A+. LOL. Loved it and his moans got me more excited. It's on Soi Than Tawan.

Then it was already time to go. Planning helped a lot on this visit. We did what we wanted to do but I just wish they closed later.

I'm Back

It's been a while since I posted on my blog and now I have decided to bring it back to life. It only took me three years! Over the past years I have gone through a lot. Maybe I will not focus so much on my bar experiences on this blog but rather my overall experiences. My travels, my thoughts and more. Some posts however will not be real time, meaning the event may have happened a month, a year or even two years ago.

I still go to gay bars, although not as much and get involved in some forums. It's quite amazing how much you learn or how much you discover on the world wide Web. It has been my source of information for anything I do especially my travels and how to pick up men or where to find them.

Going back to gay bars in the Philippines, I find it amazing how they now call them entertainment bars simply because they don't get as much "gay" clientele anymore. Women frequent these bars nowadays. Don't know why when all they need to do is open their legs and these men will be more than willing to give it to them for free. Why pay and shower them with gifts? I feel that gay, discreet, bi men are smarter nowadays and will not spend so much in these places. We do not fall for those scripted sob stories they tend to pull. We go there knowing what to spend and how far we will go. Holding hands with an MD is no longer an option. There are more fishes in the sea, you just need to know where to fish.

I really do think that some women are still naive about this MD business. They really give it all. Hook line and sinker. If they only knew what we already know. You're not the only one honey and he's probably told the same stories to many other women. I found some pics from a Macho Dancers FB account of the gifts he had received from his so called "Mommy". Very impressive gifts I must say.

Another recent discovery of mine are Massage Parlors. Recent because I never liked going to them but I knew what was going on. On my trip to Bangkok, I realized that it was not bad at all and I got over my comfort issues. So nowadays, I tend to get a massage before I get my extra service. Where have I been this whole time?????

"WB"

This is one of the bars that is along Roxas Blvd and is quite popular with Korean women. It's been a while since I've been here and is quite pricey amongst the bars.

The place is big and there are a lot of men of all sizes and looks. They have an aquarium that you can select the man of your liking or you can do a "show-up". Show-up is when all the boys are called to your table for you to select the one you wish to table. They have some booths are that have a minimum spend and I did get to know one of the floor managers there. They are not very pushy but comes to your table now and again to ask you.

To me, the men here are well trained. They are very familiar with how to treat or what to say to guests. They are open to meeting outside and quite good at what they do so beware of spending more than you have to.

I have never used their VIP rooms nor have I really overspent in this bar. Drinks for MD are expensive and I control myself. I did frequently table someone there but it did not end well.

There are so many things happening on this street that you can discretely enter the premises. The place is dark enough and big enough for you to remain anonymous.

Their big nights are usually good, they did spend a lot of time organizing it.

Minimal to none ATW.

Rate: 7/10

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The "V" Bar

The most time I spent in a Gay Bar would have been the time I spent at "V" Bar (not it's real name) but has  been closed. The bar itself was big, clean, had very cute boys and expensive. This was the time that I was "constant" to the scene. Although I visited other bars in the Metro, this was my favorite during the time. Simply because the management, staff and the boys had a different welcoming compared to the other bars.

Boys were well trained, trained to their benefit of course. They knew what to say, how to say it and most had their own managers who look after them. In which then would push the customers to make "sabit" when their talents are on stage.

Obviously I was oblivious to all of these at the time.

I eventually met "a few good men" and tabled them constantly. I had my fair share of investment in that establishment. I can't even begin to mention the amount of money I spent on these boys and their drinks and their tips plus waiter's and manager's tips.

During this time, dancers drinks were at P470- P520 (I do not recall exactly) and you had specific booths depending on minimum spend. I usually tipped the Manager P500, Waiters at P300. Sometimes I would table three boys at minimum of at least seven drinks each. I used to spend at minimum P10K- P20K per night plus tips and I would visit at least five times a month.

NOTE: Never again should anyone spend this much money in these bars, I learned the hard way.

I guess they knew what they were doing and that was the main reason I kept coming back. They knew how to play and I fell for it. I do not regret the time spent there but there was a stage where I felt that I was played too much and the boy I liked a lot was not honoring his side of the deal and the manager had everything to do with it. This is saying it lightly.

Gay Bars- Deal or No Deal?

Eto na, maumpisahan na nga. I would not say that I am 150% into Gay bars pero I do not say that I do not visit one now and again. Sa totoo lang, I find it quite enjoyable- within reasons.

I have had an argument with a friend about going to these places, He asked me "What is so enjoyable about watching macho dancers do the same moves over and over again?"

You know what? I had no answer for that. I just like to watch but it made me think. Here are maybe some VALID reasons why I still go:

1. I do like the ambiance in some bars- the music, etc
2. Free air-con
3. Some of these boys are quite hot regardless of their profession
4. I have set myself a limit on money I spend on each visit
5. I don't get attached to anyone I table.

Convinced yet?

Over the next few blogs, I will give you a run down of the bars I visited.